But I Don’t Know What To Say

Dan Lovaglia, Camp Pastor, Camp Paradise | November 21, 2024

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,
for the rights of all who are destitute.
Speak up and judge fairly;
defend the rights of the poor and needy.
Proverbs 31:8-9


“They’ve got both doors covered.” I hate to admit it, but that’s the first thought I had at the grocery store the other day. There was no way for me to avoid the people asking for donations to help the needy. I’m not proud of how my heart reacted and today’s passage helped me peel back an unhealthy protective layer.

It is the holiday season, after all. So why do I cringe anytime someone asks me for money? Maybe it’s because I don’t know how to say I already give elsewhere. Maybe it’s because I’ve been soured by scams over the years. Maybe it’s because I’m annoyed by being interrupted. Maybe it’s…

There is no end to the reasons why I resist people in need or those who speak up on their behalf. When I read God’s Word, it’s clear that His heart overflows for those without resources, strength, or voice. Following Jesus compels us to do the same.

Truth be told, I’d like to advocate for those who can’t, to celebrate and champion their rights and dignity. I’d like to be discerning and defend the poor and needy in a godly, life trajectory-changing way. Instead of overanalyzing my self-protecting responses, Proverbs 31:8-9 challenges me with a new thought—I would like to speak up, but most of the time, I don’t know what to say.

Vulnerable people are everywhere (if we’re willing to notice), and I can’t assume someone else will say or do something on their behalf. When I do run into someone who is willing to speak up for the vulnerable, it’s an opportunity for me to listen, learn, and lift the voice of the poor and needy.

Instead of avoiding people asking for donations, I’m going to use this holiday season to find out more about what they are raising money for, who they are helping, and how I can spread the word. If you’re like me and you don’t know what to say when it comes to vulnerable people, let’s meet up at the grocery store and find out.

Next Steps

Go on a “Who’s Speaking Up? Scavenger Hunt” with a friend or your small group to listen, learn, and lift up people in need. Here are two ideas to get you started:

Explore how our church speaks up for the vulnerable—connect with Willow Friends, the Care Center, or our local partners so you can join in using your voice on behalf of the vulnerable.

Talk with a few representatives from charities outside local stores—ask about their cause, the vulnerable people they serve, and how you can help speak up for them too.